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Gratitude is Never Too Late

Wednesday, November 23, 2005

Invariably, at some point during the year I seem to fall behind on my thank-you notes. Oh, I might have dashed-off a short email of thanks to someone who did something nice for me in May or June, but, somehow, my promise to send a real note, written with real ink on nice paper, has languished. (Email is just not right for genuine thanks.)

But it's not too late. I know how wonderful it feels to receive a genuine, handwritten, note of thanks, and I rarely check the date. I save most of the notes I get. They make me happy to read them, and when I do I remember the person and the moment we shared all over again.

Gratitude is never too late.

On Thanksgiving weekend, I have developed a small tradition of catching-up on all those thank-you notes that need to be written in real time, on real paper. And, the most remarkable thing about this exercise is how much better I feel as a result — it's almost like another gift!

So, I share this thought to encourage everyone who has set aside the nice paper and real pens during the year — you know who you are! Take an hour or two in this season of Thanksgiving to let those who did nice things for you know how grateful you are. You'll be grateful to them all over again. And they will be thrilled to hear from you.

Gratitude is never too late.

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November 22

Tuesday, November 22, 2005

42 years later, I still remember the events on this day in 1963 with great clarity. Our sixth grade teacher at St. Margaret's, Sr. Mary, was called out of the classroom for a few minutes, and then came back looking upset. We closed our books and began praying the rosary. Something was terribly wrong. A little while later, unexpectedly, an announcement came over the loudspeaker telling us to gather our books and prepare to leave school early. As we trudged through the schoolyard in our customary two-by-two line, a boy behind me whispered, "The President's been shot."

President John F. Kennedy had been in office just three and one-half years, but he was already a legend at a very young age. He was the harbinger of the new generation — the first U.S. president born and raised in the 20th Century, a fact that, at that time, was galvanizing. He was just 42 years old when he was elected, another astonishing cultural change in a nation whose presidential images had been much older and more remote. He used the then-new medium of television in stunning ways; his press conferences are still amazing displays of rhetorical power.

Equally significant for some of us, President Kennedy was Catholic, the first Catholic to win election to the presidency, and we felt a certain kinship with him. Some of the sisters at St. Margaret's had even worn "Kennedy for President" buttons discretely hidden under the wimples they used to wear in their full habits.

We arrived home to a strange sight: the TV was on in the middle of the day, and Mom let us watch without admonishing us to turn it off. President Kennedy was dead. For four days, Americans everywhere gathered around their televisions — still black and white for the most part — to absorb this news and say goodbye as the funeral procession marched through Washington. So it was that as we sat, unbelieving, a few days later, we also saw Jack Ruby shoot Lee Harvey Oswald in the garage of the Dallas police headquarters. We didn't know about "reality television" then, but this event, too, signified the dawn of another, darker age in broadcast media.

Debate continues about the true legacy of the Kennedy presidency, so short and unfinished. But on the larger social stage, the Kennedy era signified a cultural change whose effects continue today. On the positive side, that era paved the way for social change that included new legal protections for civil rights and women's rights, dramatic expansion of educational opportunity, and rapid scientific and technological advances. However, that same era dropped deep roots of fear and violence in many places around the world as the Cold War intensified, nuclear arms proliferated, the Vietnam conflict grew into a war, and domestic unrest intensified. Kennedy's assassination triggered the long and tragic global saga of public acts of violence and murder for political purposes that continues in the terrorism of this age.

Among President Kennedy's many inspiring speeches and writings, the famous words from his Inauguration Address still have great meaning: "Ask not what your country can do for you; ask what you can do for your country." Four decades later, he still calls us to action for the sake of the nation, a call to service, generosity and charity in all of the communities we influence.

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Gratitude and College Dreams

Monday, November 21, 2005

A long time ago, thanks to the generosity of benefactors I never knew, I was able to achieve what once seemed like an impossible dream — a Trinity degree! I was in the first generation in my family to attend and complete college, and then law school, and scholarships made all the difference.

I thought of this yesterday when I attended a wonderful event at the J.W. Marriott for D.C. high school students. The D.C. College Assistance Program (DC-CAP) is a privately-funded organization that provides scholarships and college counseling for D.C. high school students. Many Trinity students have received very generous "last dollar" grants from DC-CAP, and this financial assistance often makes the difference in the students' ability to complete each semester successfully.

DC-CAP was founded and funded by Washington Post Chairman Donald Graham; his remarkable vision and energetic persuasion pulled together a coalition of local corporations and foundations who provided sizeable gifts to support the program. Thanks to their generosity, more than 6,000 D.C. students are now enrolled in colleges across the nation, with one of the largest single groups enrolled at Trinity. Because of Trinity's leadership in the education of D.C. residents, DC-CAP honored Trinity yesterday with the annual DC-CAPtain's Award — a very nice recognition for Trinity.

Argelia Rodriguez, the extraordinary executive director of DC-CAP, led yesterday's program that recognized many outstanding young women and men in the D.C. Schools, and provided valuable college preparation advice to the more than 1,000 students and parents attending. I was very impressed with the students who won prizes for their poems, essays and artwork illustrating their desire to attend college. They also heard an inspired talk by Sheila Johnson, co-founder of BET and president of the Washington Mystics, an entrepreneur and leader who encouraged the students to pursue their dreams with passion and intelligence each day.

One of the best parts of the afternoon came when I met a group of DC-CAP counselors who revealed that most of them are also enrolled in Trinity's graduate programs in teaching and counseling, or are recent master's graduates. I was also delighted to reconnect with Savetria Y. Francis, a 2002 graduate of Trinity's School of Education, who is now assistant principal at T. Roosevelt High School. These men and women of Trinity are making a real difference in the D.C. Schools — they make alma mater proud!

Gratitude was the strongest feeling I took away from this event — gratitude for the hard work of the DC-CAP staff and counselors; gratitude for the great generosity of Donald Graham and his colleagues who founded this program and who fund so many Trinity students today; gratitude for the students and parents who will spend a tremendous amount of time and energy to be sure that their college search is successful. And, as I drove home, I also remembered to say a word of thanks to those benefactors nearly four decades ago whose generosity gave me my start on the pathway to success.

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Trinity Federal Judge Holds Post Reporter in Contempt

Friday, November 18, 2005

U.S. District Court Judge Rosemary Mayers Collyer, Trinity Class of 1968, is at the center of the latest controversy involving reporters and sources. On Wednesday, November 16, Judge Collyer held Washington Post Reporter Walter Pincus in contempt of court for refusing to reveal his confidential sources in a civil suit brought by Wen Ho Lee, a nuclear weapons scientist who is suing the federal government over an investigation of his activities at nuclear lab in Los Alamos.

Judge Collyer received Trinity's Centennial Leadership Award at the Cap and Gown Convocation in Fall 2003. You can read more about her in the Fall 2003 Trinity Magazine posted on Trinity's website at http://www.trinitydc.edu/news_events/mags/fall03/judges.htm

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Thanksgiving Holidays

Wednesday, November 16, 2005

I am pleased to announce that in recognition of the very hard work that everyone has done all semester — Middle States, IQ Web, and all of the daily fine work — the Senior Staff unanimously (and quickly!) agreed that we should grant a special additional full staff holiday on Wednesday, November 23. No classes are scheduled for that date. So, Trinity will be officially closed for Thanksgiving from the end of the last class on Tuesday night until Monday, November 28.

While travel and commitments to family and friends can make next week a very busy time for many of us, I hope that each of you will find some time for rest and relaxation as well. In the spirit of the season, many thanks to all of our staff and faculty whose great work sustains Trinity's vitality and effectiveness each day.

Happy Thanksgiving!

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